Make a Choice
Are you a victim? The vast majority of people in the workforce today feel like victims. The reason: they are afraid to make choices.
It is easier to sit back and point the finger at your boss, the company, your spouse, and a host of other scapegoats. The saying, "When you point your finger there are three fingers pointing right back at you," is so true. We do not want to own up to the choices that we have made and for good reason. It may take some serious thought as to where the original choice was made that enables you to be the victim.
Somewhere in your past you made a conscious choice - you alone - no one was there to twist your arm. Maybe you did not spend the time or get the information that you needed to make a good choice - but you chose that scenario as well. At some point in our younger years, we are evolved enough to know that we live with our choices. Too many people go to the grave still choosing to be a victim.
A short list of important choices:
- Getting married
- Having children
- Buying new instead of used
- Eating a donut instead of an orange
- The attitude I will approach my day with
- To exercise
- Getting a divorce
- To quit feeding my brain and my soul
- Using credit cards
- Not taking vacation
- Buying a home
- Last but not least - NOT TO BE A VICTIM

